Know yourself.
Grow together.
An app for singles, people who've just met someone, and couples. A few minutes a day to understand yourself, and the people you love, a little better.
We'll never give you a compatibility score. Nobody can honestly predict that yet.
Who it's for
Single
Get clear on what you actually want, before you meet them.
Just met someone
Keep the early days, and look back on how it began.
Together
See a little more of each other, for as long as you're together.
What we promise
Private by default
What you write is yours. A partner sees only what you choose to share.
No scores
No ratings, no percentages, no comparing you with anyone.
Honest about AI
No AI reads what you write today. Our guide, Megan, is a written character, not an AI.
We're in beta, and we're keeping the details close until launch. Beta testers see everything first.
How your data is used
Everything you answer builds your own record: your brain map, your journal, your monthly recap. It's there so you can see your own journey, and it's yours to export or delete at any time.
If you're in a couple, the reports, things to say, and songs work from what each of you chooses to share. Your partner never sees anything you haven't shared.
Questionnaire and check-in answers are analysed together to learn what good matches look like and to build BrainMatch's matching. We call this matching data. It's filed under a random id, never your name or email, alongside your birth year, whether you're single or in a couple, when your relationship started, how you met (if you meet someone here). That makes it pseudonymised, not anonymous: the id links your answers over time and to your partner's, so it's still treated as your personal data. It never includes your writing, your email, or who you're looking for. “Help build matching” controls whether yours is used to build matching features.
Today: Megan's voice is an AI text-to-speech voice, recorded in advance from lines the BrainMatch team wrote, and her words are ours, picked by simple rules. Nothing you write is sent to an AI service yet. If you turn on “Help build matching”, your pseudonymised answers (under a random id, never your name or email) may be used to train the models behind future matching. Coming: we plan to use AI to look deeper into your answers, for richer insight into your traits and more. Before that starts, it will be described here, and you'll get a separate yes or no. Nothing changes until you say yes.
If something you write names a day ahead, like “interview Thursday”, Megan asks how it went on that day. That's a simple rule that spots the word “tomorrow” or a day's name, on your phone's own words, and nothing else. Your answer stays in your journal.
The full statement is on the privacy and data use page.